Have you been doing Google search to find out how to improve your sex life? Have many of your attempts to improve your sex life been focused on how to do it better? Has all of this research resulted in still more frustration and disappointment and rejection in your bedroom? Are you worried that you are never going to be able to fix your sex life?


One of the most common misunderstandings in thinking about sex is that marriage causes sex or that sex is supposed to happen or that if you really love somebody, sex will happen. This idea that something other than you will cause you and your partner to have sex creates huge amounts of problems for couples and affects the way they talk about it and how they approach it.


Getting a better sex life in a long-term relationship takes more than just sexual techniques and practices. Most people actually know how to do sex and what they like, what gets in their way is being able to own what they like and then the confidence and security to share that with their partner. That, in fact, is sexual intimacy. Being able to talk without fear to your partner about what you like and what you don’t like, as well as being able to hear what they like and don’t like without feeling defensive or feeling offended or hurt.


Feelings of hurt, defensiveness, misunderstanding confuse and derail healthy conversations that could improve sex life.


Are you not sure you are ready to do sex therapy or intimacy counselling to improve your sex life? Well, All In The Family Counselling Center Pt. Ltd. has put together a series of talks designed to educate people who are not quiet ready for individualised therapy to address their individual issues.


We provide thoughtfully taylored confidential education classes. We realize not everyone is ready for therapy. Visit our website to learn about these:



We will be doing a series of talks about sex, pleasure, moving beyond function to help you. these talks will be anonymous, so you can log in anonymously and participate as much or as little as you like. At the end of it there will be a certificate award and path to go on to next levels of education and attend one of our pleasure principle retreats in Croatia designed to help translate what you are learning into action. If you would like to learn more, visit our talk or where you can sign up, email us to learn more at

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