All in the Family Counselling

Marriage & Couple Counselling

Couples, whether married or in a committed relationship can benefit from counselling to help resolve conflict, increase intimacy and improve communication skills. Our approach to relationship counselling is directive and focused on present and future direction. We integrate the theories and methodologies of Drs. Gottman, Choice theory,and attachment theory.  Our focus is to help bring about small change in a short period of time such as 4-6 session and help improve client's relationships. Further work may be required to increase the couple's functionality.

We are happy to speak with you about our approach or answer any questions you may have. 

Counselling FAQ

Client Case Studies

Most common reasons for couple counselling include:

• Emotional Unhappiness/lack of love in relationship
• Communication Issues
• Divorce/Separation Concerns
• Desire to Improve the Relationship
• Arguments/Anger
• Sex/Physical Affection Differences
• Conflict escalation without resolution

Pre-marriage and Post-Marriage Counselling

Couples planning to get married, newlyweds or honeymoon couples can benefit from relationship skills that will ensure a successful marriage. A strong marriage requires good relationship and communications skills. We help couples evaluate and clarify that they have compatible values and beliefs and ways of communicating in their up coming marriage. 

Our goal is to help couples evaluate and clarify how decisions will be made regarding future children, work hours, personal time spent, finances and many other decision. In Singapore, to get divorced you must prove fault and if no fault can be found it can take up to 4 years to get a divorce. Prepare for a successful future and ensure happiness by preparing before you get married and develop skills that will ensure it will be a happy marriage.

All in the Family Counselling uses Choice Theory/Reality Therapy skills and Gottman's Research to teach couples how to manage wants and needs in a relationship and increase personal internal control for marital happiness. . We will integrate any religious beliefs and values you hold into your pre-maritial counselling session.

We will help you assess what is most important to each individual and create  a unified view as a couple. These are lifelong skills to a successful marriage and can be used to navigate issues of family planning, time management, family/work priorities, family time versus friend time and in-law issues. We offer two unique packages from which you can choose. Please  This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it or call us at 9030 7239 to receive our pre-marriage brochure.

Surviving Infidelity Couple Counselling

A couple faced with the realization that one partner has had an affair whether sexual or emotional (via the internet, porn, or sex-texting) is in real crisis. The partner who has discovered the affair can almost meet the criteria for post-traumatic stress syndrome. A relationship can survive an affair, however it requires work and commitment on both parties to want to save the relationship. Integrative approaches that use narrative therapy and solution focused and choice theory are used to work through the affair, attempt to establish a new platform to build trust and engage in a building a new relationship. If your relationship has faced this crisis contact us to find out how we can help you by calling 9030 7239.

Infertility Couple Counselling

Counselling before starting infertility treatments has been found to be an effective measure against the ensuing stress and anxiety of treatments and can help protect and stabilize the marriage. In many countries it is mandatory part of infertility treatments.

For couples finding themselves engaging in infertility treatments and dealing with the realities of infertility, a common consequence is distress in the relationship or marriage. Infertility is a private matter and often a couple can only turn to each other. When a couple faces a disconnect in the urgency of the problem or in how each person communicates their concerns, unhappiness, isolations and disconnection can follow. There is research that shows how both couple counselling as well as support groups can help protect and enhance a relationship that is facing the stress of infertility. Contact us to find out how we can help you at no obligation by calling 9030 7239